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Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-04-2010, 03:53 AM
As you recall, last year this time I was out of town staying at a hotel with the wife and girls when I was arrested for taking a razor strap to them for some unChristian behavior. Someone heard them repenting as a strapped their little harlot hinies and the police showed up and I was wrongfully arrested for child abuse. One of the officers was a man hating lesbean diesel dyke.
My daughters testified that I did not spank them and my Joo lawyer got the charges dismissed.
Now that I am back in Freehold I spank hard and I spank often on their bare bottoms.
How often do you spank and what do you use? What are your methods to insure Godly behavior?
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-04-2010, 05:21 AM
You know I've never really thought about it, personally I use whatever is in hand, or else my belt. As for how often, as often as is needed. I know I probably beat the oldest boy twice as often as I do the two younger ones together, but that's because he's foolish and defiant. I think the second boy has actually gone over a month without more than a fast cuff from the wife. The youngest turns 2 at the end of the month, so you know we're going to be upping the beatings for the next few years at least. Guess I should stock the wife's kitchen with more wooden spoons (her preferred weapon).
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-06-2010, 04:09 AM
In our household I am the sole disciplinarian.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-06-2010, 04:16 AM
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In our household I am the sole disciplinarian.
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With my job that wouldn't work out very well. I prefer that the wife deals with things as they come up rather than greeting me at the door with a list of things the boys have done. I come home, I just want to relax.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-06-2010, 07:37 PM
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With my job that wouldn't work out very well. I prefer that the wife deals with things as they come up rather than greeting me at the door with a list of things the boys have done. I come home, I just want to relax.
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But who is going to beat her when she needs it? Also Brother Campbell women don't hit hard enough. Before I was saved and I was just a kid my mother used to beat me and it hurt a lot until I got older then I used to mock her but then dear old dad would take over and use a 2x4 on me.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-06-2010, 07:54 PM
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-07-2010, 01:49 AM
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12 But I will send a fire upon Teman, which shall devour the palaces of Bozrah.
13 Thus saith the LORD; For three transgressions of the children of Ammon, and for four, I will not turn away the punishment thereof; because they have ripped up the women with child of Gilead, that they might enlarge their border:
14 But I will kindle a fire in the wall of Rabbah, and it shall devour the palaces thereof, with shouting in the day of battle, with a tempest in the day of the whirlwind:
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Even God punished children who did wrong, so as Christians we must follow The Lord and what he says. So how do we go wrong by punishing our children if they do wrong?
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
06-22-2012, 10:21 PM
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Even God punished children who did wrong, so as Christians we must follow The Lord and what he says. So how do we go wrong by punishing our children if they do wrong?
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There's nothing wrong with teaching them right from wrong. Me being a very softhearted mother however, I have NEVER spanked my son and he's 3. Yet, he still listens to everything I say. I've found time-outs and loss of priviledges to be very effective. *As much as I hate to even do that.* I don't believe parents necessarily have to use corporal punishment to get their children to listen.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
06-22-2012, 10:27 PM
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There's nothing wrong with teaching them right from wrong. Me being a very softhearted mother however, I have NEVER spanked my son and he's 3. Yet, he still listens to everything I say. I've found time-outs and loss of priviledges to be very effective. *As much as I hate to even do that.* I don't believe parents necessarily have to use corporal punishment to get their children to listen.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
06-22-2012, 10:29 PM
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There's nothing wrong with teaching them right from wrong. Me being a very softhearted mother however, I have NEVER spanked my son and he's 3. Yet, he still listens to everything I say. I've found time-outs and loss of priviledges to be very effective. *As much as I hate to even do that.* I don't believe parents necessarily have to use corporal punishment to get their children to listen.
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Proverbs 23:13-30
13 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
14 Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.
15 My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine.
16 Yea, my reins shall rejoice, when thy lips speak right things.
17 Let not thine heart envy sinners: but be thou in the fear of the Lord all the day long.
18 For surely there is an end; and thine expectation shall not be cut off.
19 Hear thou, my son, and be wise, and guide thine heart in the way.
20 Be not among winebibbers; among riotous eaters of flesh:
21 For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty: and drowsiness shall clothe a man with rags.
22 Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.
23 Buy the truth, and sell it not; also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding.
24 The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him.
25 Thy father and thy mother shall be glad, and she that bare thee shall rejoice.
26 My son, give me thine heart, and let thine eyes observe my ways.
27 For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit.
28 She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men.
29 Who hath woe? who hath sorrow? who hath contentions? who hath babbling? who hath wounds without cause? who hath redness of eyes?
30 They that tarry long at the wine; they that go to seek mixed wine.
Then you people wonder why your kids shoot up schools. Follow the Bible, it is not hard to do! Get invovled with your kids life.
Isaiah 45:7 I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things.
Amos 3:6 Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it?
Numbers 21:6 And the LORD sent fiery serpents among the people, and they bit the people; and much people of Israel died.
Matthew 10:34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
Matthew 10:35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
Matthew 10:36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
04-27-2014, 02:36 AM
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There's nothing wrong with teaching them right from wrong. Me being a very softhearted mother however, I have NEVER spanked my son and he's 3. Yet, he still listens to everything I say. I've found time-outs and loss of privileges to be very effective. *As much as I hate to even do that.* I don't believe parents necessarily have to use corporal punishment to get their children to listen.
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Not all children are the same.
For some children 'time-outs' work for others it doesn't.
For some children 'loss of privileges ' work for others it doesn't.
For some children 'spanking' work for others it doesn't.
Children do not all respond to the same form of discipline.
I tried all the so called 'acceptable' forms of discipline and ended up with an argumentative , angry and disrespectful 13 yr old son that is living with friends because he is abusive to me.
I'm not saying the way you discipline is wrong for you but things could have been much better for my son if I had given his bare bottom some good beatings while he was still young enough for it to be legal.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
04-27-2014, 02:44 AM
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-07-2010, 02:23 AM
now I understand where the female dominatrix learn their craft
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-07-2010, 03:20 AM
I don't like to boast, but I have a modest collection of disciplinary devices. I am somewhat of an enthusiast, I guess you might say. Though I have yet to be Blessed by Jesus with a wife and children, I can assure you that I am ready, willing and able to dish out all the Godly discipline that any of my future children require. Praise God!
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Here is a partial list from just a few scripture verses:
Hypocrites (Matthew 24:51), The Unforgiving (Mark 11:26), Homosexuals (Romans 1:26, 27), Fornicators (Romans 1:29), The Wicked (Romans 1:29), The Covetous (Romans 1:29), The Malicious (Romans 1:29), The Envious (Romans 1:29), Murderers (Romans 1:29), The Deceitful (Romans 1:29), Backbiters (Romans 1:30), Haters of God (Romans 1:30), The Despiteful (Romans 1:30), The Proud (Romans 1:30), Boasters (Romans 1:30), Inventors of evil (Romans 1:30), Disobedient to parents (Romans 1:30), Covenant breakers (Romans 1:31), The Unmerciful (Romans 1:31), The Implacable (Romans 1:31), The Unrighteous (1Corinthians 6:9), Idolaters (1Corinthians 6:9), Adulterers (1Corinthians 6:9), The Effeminate (1Corinthians 6:9), Thieves (1Corinthians 6:10), Drunkards (1Corinthians 6:10), Reviler (1Corinthians 6:10), Extortioners (1Corinthians 6:10), The Fearful (Revelation 21:8), The Unbelieving (Revelation 21:8), The Abominable (Revelation 21:8), Whoremongers (Revelation 21:8), Sorcerers (Revelation 21:8), All Liars (Revelation 21:8)
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-07-2010, 06:11 AM
That is a very impressive collection Pastor Zeke!
During the spanking I also inspect my daughter's celestial orifices to see if they have been acting like harlots.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-08-2010, 05:08 AM
My instruments of domestic discipline are fairly pedestrian. For my oldest three sons, I use a walking cane. I just pinch and shake the toddler and the newborn for now. They will also be reprimanded with the cane when they reach age 4.
Proverbs 13:4
He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
My wife obeys God's Word and seldom requires scourging. On those rare occasions, a belt usually suffices.
II Thessalonians 1:7-9
And to you who are troubled rest with us, when the Lord Jesus shall be revealed from heaven with his mighty angels,
In flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ:
Who shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord, and from the glory of his power
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-08-2010, 07:04 PM
Is it okay that my big brothers (18 and 21) are allowed to spank me and my two little brothers when daddy isn't home? I've heard him and ma arguing about it because ma thinks they should be allowed to and daddy thinks it's his responsibility...
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-14-2010, 04:57 AM
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Is it okay that my big brothers (18 and 21) are allowed to spank me and my two little brothers when daddy isn't home? I've heard him and ma arguing about it because ma thinks they should be allowed to and daddy thinks it's his responsibility...
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If your mom and dad cannot decide I would be happy to spank you. Have them contact me after church or just stop by the gun shop and I will give you the spankings you need.
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09-14-2010, 07:07 AM
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Is it okay that my big brothers (18 and 21) are allowed to spank me and my two little brothers when daddy isn't home? I've heard him and ma arguing about it because ma thinks they should be allowed to and daddy thinks it's his responsibility...
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-11-2012, 08:18 PM
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I don't like to boast, but I have a modest collection of disciplinary devices. I am somewhat of an enthusiast, I guess you might say. Though I have yet to be Blessed by Jesus with a wife and children, I can assure you that I am ready, willing and able to dish out all the Godly discipline that any of my future children require. Praise God!
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Dear Pastor Ezekiel,
I hope my request for your friendship wasn't too forward. I was too eager as a PK {Ministers daughter} I got excited reading your posts! I know in Timothy 2:11 it says Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. So I was perhaps a bit to forward with being the initiator that is your job. Hope we can be online friends. Oops there I go again! - If I were married ide deserve some kind of a spanking. LOL! You probably can't edit or erace these posts so i need to be careful on here. I Stumbled upon this forum in my daily devotion on a Godly Woman. I am learning how I can be good mother wife and daughter. One of my fave subjects is a good wife. since I am 27 going on 28 I am ready to Obey a Loving Leader of a Husband. Even if that means being the neck that {turns the head} Not the head of the home. Even if that means being submissive. Being Quiet.
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