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Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 04:16 PM
The original thread was deleted for some reason so I'm just going to post the short version. I was supposed to be getting married soon but found gay pornography in my fiancé's apartment and think he's probably just going through with the marriage to cover up being gay. Should I talk to my and his father about this so we can get him treatment?
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 04:17 PM
It depends. Does he claim to be a Christian? If so, you can probably beat the gay out of him and still have a decent husband.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 04:20 PM
Yeah, we're both from very strict Christian households. I'm afraid that now whenever I'm with him, all I can think about is his actions against God.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 04:51 PM
Confront him and ask where the gay porn came from and why it's there. If he gets defensive then he is obviously a homo. In which case begin paying attention in church for a better mans affections.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 05:20 PM
If he is a good Christian man then there has to be a reasonable explanation.
It may have been planted by Demons or Wiccans.
There is no way a Christian man would have any kind of pornography. Ever.
Especially not the Sodomite kind with sweaty men crawling over one another doing all kinds of Homo stuff.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 05:33 PM
There is a simple test you can do.
Bring home two CD's. A Judy Garland and a Perry Como. If he chooses the Judy Garland, he is a Homer.
If it turns out he is a Homer, any male in your family has the legal right and religious responsibility to stomp him for shaming you.
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Amos 3:6 Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it?
Numbers 21:6 And the LORD sent fiery serpents among the people, and they bit the people; and much people of Israel died.
Matthew 10:34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
Matthew 10:35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
Matthew 10:36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 05:43 PM
A Christian counselor friend of mine has told me if a man has been, shall we say, the receiver, the homersixualisms is much harder to erase.
If he has only been, well, let's say 'the pitcher', then there might be a fair chance of fixing the situation.
If he has ever performed in public in woman's clothing, he is probably lost.
I would also add a caution, if you seem to attract, or be attracted to men with this problem, then there could be something profoundly wrong with you.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 06:05 PM
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I would also add a caution, if you seem to attract, or be attracted to men with this problem, then there could be something profoundly wrong with you.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 08:00 PM
I beg to differ, there is something profoundly wrong with someone there it just isn't you this time. If you find pornography it can be atoned for through tithes and prayer, if it was gay porn then the trouble runs deep indeed. That is a specialty type of filth that is generally imported from Asia and Europe where the gays pretty much run the place. That sort of porn would have to be ordered directly from an opium den or from California.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 08:43 PM
Has he been expressing interest in planning the wedding?
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 08:52 PM
He doesn't really care about the event itself and left the planning all up to me and my mother
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 08:57 PM
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He doesn't really care about the event itself and left the planning all up to me and my mother
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Hmmmm that is odd. Homers like to plan weddings and parties.
Isaiah 45:7 I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things.
Amos 3:6 Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it?
Numbers 21:6 And the LORD sent fiery serpents among the people, and they bit the people; and much people of Israel died.
Matthew 10:34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
Matthew 10:35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
Matthew 10:36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-21-2009, 09:03 PM
He's been hanging out with some new "friends" a lot more than he used to hang out with his usual group of friends lately. I'm afraid they might be turning him gay.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-22-2009, 02:26 AM
Amy, have you prayed over your role in all this? What have you done to drive your fiancée into the arms of sweaty, hairy, muscular men? Is your cooking up to snuff? Have you treated him with respect and allowed him to subjectify you, as the Bible commands?
I find that in many cases it's the woman's fault.
Here is a partial list from just a few scripture verses:
Hypocrites (Matthew 24:51), The Unforgiving (Mark 11:26), Homosexuals (Romans 1:26, 27), Fornicators (Romans 1:29), The Wicked (Romans 1:29), The Covetous (Romans 1:29), The Malicious (Romans 1:29), The Envious (Romans 1:29), Murderers (Romans 1:29), The Deceitful (Romans 1:29), Backbiters (Romans 1:30), Haters of God (Romans 1:30), The Despiteful (Romans 1:30), The Proud (Romans 1:30), Boasters (Romans 1:30), Inventors of evil (Romans 1:30), Disobedient to parents (Romans 1:30), Covenant breakers (Romans 1:31), The Unmerciful (Romans 1:31), The Implacable (Romans 1:31), The Unrighteous (1Corinthians 6:9), Idolaters (1Corinthians 6:9), Adulterers (1Corinthians 6:9), The Effeminate (1Corinthians 6:9), Thieves (1Corinthians 6:10), Drunkards (1Corinthians 6:10), Reviler (1Corinthians 6:10), Extortioners (1Corinthians 6:10), The Fearful (Revelation 21:8), The Unbelieving (Revelation 21:8), The Abominable (Revelation 21:8), Whoremongers (Revelation 21:8), Sorcerers (Revelation 21:8), All Liars (Revelation 21:8)
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-22-2009, 02:38 AM
I would just like to point out that while possession of pornography is circumstantial evidence it is not direct evidence. As a televangelist and family advocate, I have a public role in investigating the worst of society and bringing it to the public's attention. That is why I involved myself in playing Oblivion and Fallout 3 to learn about it and write articles about them so that Christian families will be better educated on what to keep away from their kids.
My steadfast dedication to eradicating pornography and making it illegal goes back over 30 years! Back in '72, I snuck in under disguise into a Los Angeles adult theatre to watch "Deep Throat". The film blew me away with its sordid sexual acts. It left a bad taste in my mouth, and I couldn't swallow the fact of what I was seeing! In response, I immediately starting shooting out a load of pamphlets to Christian men in my church warning them not to see it. I even gave out the locations and times it was playing so that they may not happen to wander by the place at the wrong time and get sucked in by the Devil.
My point is Amy, just make sure he wasn't holding the gay pornography for research purposes. It is possible he may have been starting a ministry for ex-gays. Remember, it's circumstantial evidence which doesn't convict him, but it doesn't mean he's off the hook and I advise you to keep a watchful eye over him.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-22-2009, 03:04 AM
Homosexual pornography, though horrifically sinful, can be quite informative in exteding the horizons in the bedrooms of annointed christian couples. Perhaps he wants to introduce the only true contraception that is not abortion- the "back passage"
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-22-2009, 11:41 PM
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Homosexual pornography, though horrifically sinful, can be quite informative in exteding the horizons in the bedrooms of annointed christian couples. Perhaps he wants to introduce the only true contraception that is not abortion- the "back passage"
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Read Genesis 38, 9-10 you twisted sodomite. Repent of your vile and abominable practices lest the Lord smite you as He did Onan.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-24-2009, 03:15 AM
I have a very heavenly update for this. His father had a long talk with him and it turns out he was merely studying the gays in order to try to find a cure for them. So the wedding goes on as planned and I could have the husband who cures homersexuality.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-24-2009, 03:47 AM
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I have a very heavenly update for this. His father had a long talk with him and it turns out he was merely studying the gays in order to try to find a cure for them. So the wedding goes on as planned and I could have the husband who cures homersexuality.
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Oh, Amy. I'm so glad there was a good explanation and this wasn't your fault. Maybe you might join him in his studies and you could delve inside a few lesbos to see what makes them tick. I've heard they're leary about people outside of their clan, tho', so you might want to offer them a piece of pie right of the bat so they would be less wary. Good luck to your and your future husband.
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Re: Gay fiancé -
07-24-2009, 10:36 AM
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I have a very heavenly update for this. His father had a long talk with him and it turns out he was merely studying the gays in order to try to find a cure for them. So the wedding goes on as planned and I could have the husband who cures homersexuality.
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I do not see where the studying could take more than five minutes. You drag the Homer out to the wood shed, grab a axe handle and wail away till you have prayed the gay away.
Isaiah 45:7 I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things.
Amos 3:6 Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it?
Numbers 21:6 And the LORD sent fiery serpents among the people, and they bit the people; and much people of Israel died.
Matthew 10:34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
Matthew 10:35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
Matthew 10:36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
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