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  • I shouldn’t be this angry

    I hope you'll excuse me if it seems like I'm taking advantage of your open forum, but I just have to get this off my chest.

    I shouldn’t be this angry, but I am. My little dog last week developed a very nasty habit: if we leave the kitchen for a minute, she jumps on the table to get the food. I discovered today that a ten year old neighbor taught her to do this. Instead, of apologizing when I confronted him, he gave me a convoluted rationale about dogs that are new learning new things. I was too angry to say anything. When I’m that mad, silence is always the best option.

    I’m generally fed up with this kid. The rule is no shoes in the house, but he can’t seem to grasp it (and I have the sand on the carpet to prove it). He also has no sense of privacy and, even as I’m hollering at him to stay out of a room, he’ll just walk into it. I suspect he has mild Autism. I’ve said that from the day I met him — although social, there’s something wrong with his affect — but I’m becoming increasingly certain that I’m right.

    So, I know I shouldn’t be mad, because he’s just a kid and I think he has a mild neurological deficit, but I’m still mad, because I now have a dog who jumps on my kitchen table and steals food. Calm me down someone. I’ll take a nice "there, there," or some practical information about how to deal with a boy who is an important part of the neighborhood social set and who, although a little "off," is basically a nice little guy who just happens to ignor any boundaries (and who has now taught my dog to ignore an important boundary).

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    Re: I shouldn’t be this angry

    (Psst! Pastor! Pastor Ray! I'm not certain that our Pastors would approve of your saying "convoluted" on this board, so you might want to reconsider!)

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    • #3
      Re: I shouldn’t be this angry

      Originally posted by Pastor Ray from Salem VA View Post
      I hope you'll excuse me if it seems like I'm taking advantage of your open forum, but I just have to get this off my chest.

      I shouldn’t be this angry, but I am. My little dog last week developed a very nasty habit: if we leave the kitchen for a minute, she jumps on the table to get the food. I discovered today that a ten year old neighbor taught her to do this. Instead, of apologizing when I confronted him, he gave me a convoluted rationale about dogs that are new learning new things. I was too angry to say anything. When I’m that mad, silence is always the best option.

      I’m generally fed up with this kid. The rule is no shoes in the house, but he can’t seem to grasp it (and I have the sand on the carpet to prove it). He also has no sense of privacy and, even as I’m hollering at him to stay out of a room, he’ll just walk into it. I suspect he has mild Autism. I’ve said that from the day I met him — although social, there’s something wrong with his affect — but I’m becoming increasingly certain that I’m right.

      So, I know I shouldn’t be mad, because he’s just a kid and I think he has a mild neurological deficit, but I’m still mad, because I now have a dog who jumps on my kitchen table and steals food. Calm me down someone. I’ll take a nice "there, there," or some practical information about how to deal with a boy who is an important part of the neighborhood social set and who, although a little "off," is basically a nice little guy who just happens to ignor any boundaries (and who has now taught my dog to ignore an important boundary).
      In my opinion Pastor Ray, the child has no doctor said "autism". He just needs his fanny reddened for misbehaving. As far as the dog, chastize twice and if not successful, then a reddening of his fanny is required as well. And if he (the boy) is an important part of the social set, go to his parents and show them the KJV1611 and it's usefulness. I am sure the little twerp will turn around quickly with the Saviours word. Does his parents follow the KJV1611? If not, I think there is a chance for intervention for you to show the one and only true way of our Lord Jesus Christ! to them.

      YIC
      Hushed
      And ye shall tread down the wicked; for they shall be ashes under the soles of your feet in the day that I shall do this, saith the Lord of hosts. Malachi 4.3

      Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean: wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.
      Pslams 51:7

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        Re: I shouldn’t be this angry

        Ray, my friend.

        What this child lacks is discipline, or he is possessed by a demon.
        Either way, Jesus obviously hates him.

        Grab the tard by his neck, drag him back to his parents and have them give him the rod of discipline.
        If that doesn't help, you better take him before the congregation and excorcise whatever demons are residing in him.

        I hope one of these will help.
        The only other alternative I can think of is stoning, but sadly, secular laws forbid it.
        If thou be wise, thou shalt be wise for thyself: But if thou scornest, thou alone shalt bear it.
        A foolish woman is clamorous: She is simple, and knoweth nothing.
        Proverbs 9:12-13

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        • #5
          Re: I shouldn’t be this angry

          I do trust you have used the belt on your dog, as the Godly James Dobson recommends?
          O Lord our God, help us to tear their soldiers to bloody shreds with our shells; help us to cover their smiling fields with the pale forms of their patriot dead; help us to drown the thunder of the guns with the shrieks of their wounded, writhing in pain; help us to lay waste their humble homes with a hurricane of fire; help us to wring the hearts of their unoffending widows with unavailing grief; help us to turn them out roofless with little children to wander unfriended the wastes of their desolated land in rags and hunger and thirst, sports of the sun flames of summer and the icy winds of winter, broken in spirit, worn with travail, imploring Thee for the refuge of the grave and denied it--for our sakes who adore Thee, Lord, blast their hopes, blight their lives, protract their bitter pilgrimage, make heavy their steps, water their way with their tears, stain the white snow with the blood of their wounded feet! We ask it, in the spirit of love, of Him Who is the Source of Love, and Who is the ever-faithful refuge and friend of all that are sore beset and seek His aid with humble and contrite hearts. Amen.



          God being truth, justice, goodness, beauty, power, and life, man is falsehood, iniquity, evil, ugliness, impotence, and death. God being master, man is the slave. Incapable of finding justice, truth, and eternal life by his own effort, he can attain them only through a divine revelation... he who desires to worship God must harbor no childish illusions about the matter, but bravely renounce his liberty and humanity.

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