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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-28-2012, 03:18 PM
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I've recently married into a Southern Baptist family, I'm being introduced to many new things and was recently told that I will have discipline instilled into my life. After reading these postings I m a bit nervous, especially seeing the wide range of implements used. Im really not sure what to expect from my husband.
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First of all, congratualtions for your marriage! if you married a Christian man, you don't have to worry at all: he surely knows how and when he has to do to discipline you. Our dear husbands honor us with their discipline to make us be the submissive and obedient wives God designed us to be.
Don't be nervous or scary! from your husband you can only expect the best: a loving act as Christian Domestic discipline!! be happy to be so lucky: many wives have secular marriages where the husband does not care at all about them.
Our Godly men, on the othe hand, love us and care about us so much to dedicate their time, their efforts and their energy to correct us.
Of course, discipline is painful (it must be! it's a chastisement!!!!) but, ask yourself, what is worse? not to feel this temporary pain and to destroy your Christian marriage, and make your husband escape, because you are not a Godly wife? Or to accept with joy your husband's discipline, and be the beloved woman of his dreams?
the discipline is for your good, for your salvation, so be very grateful to your husband... and the harder he beats you, the more you have to thank him! You will surely remeber the Proverbs 20: 30
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-28-2012, 03:32 PM
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I'm completely new to this, actually haven't received any "spankings" from my husband yet but how exactly does it erase your guilt? What if you don't feel guilty over some reason that he spanks you ?
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Women are inferior to men, so we have reduced capacity of undersanding. Maybe we do not feel guilty, but we are, we must trust the superior capacity of judgement of our husbands!
Remeber: it's not your hunsband, but God himself who is punishing you, through the hand of your husband. Obviously God cannot be mistakes!!!!
I never question my husband's decision to spank me. Actually, it sounds quite sinful to me, to question my husband's authority. We have to submit to our husbands in everything, so, when he mentions that I will be disciplined, I simply remove my clothes and bend on my knees on the bed, expecting for my due spanking.
this is what I really suggest you to do: don't argue, don't ask for explanations, don't moan, don't kick, don't move, don't shout, don't even beg for mercy. Accept with dignity whatever punishment he will deem as necessary for your good, just silently sobb, to show your genunine repentance. And always thank him after...
after punishment we earn forgiveness, that's why it is so good to receive proper discpline!
Beg your Godly husband to introduce CDD as soon as possible in your marriage. You will see how happy and in love both of you will be!!
I wish heartly the best for your marriage! Be it as good as you can: obey to your husband in everything, you will not surely regreat it!
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-08-2012, 12:12 AM
Juliet- Thank you for responding to my posts! I agree that I am very lucky to have such a loving and caring husband that will dedicate his time, efforts and energy to correct me. It is a bit scary but I trust my husband and I trust God completely so I will do like you said and not fight anytime I'm disciplined. It is different for me to obedient in everything but I really am trying to do so, I am really strong willed but I am doing my best to become completely submissive to my husband.
Thank you, I'm glad there are women to talk to because most the women I know don't understand.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-08-2012, 12:51 AM
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It is different for me to obedient in everything but I really am trying to do so, I am really strong willed but I am doing my best to become completely submissive to my husband.
Thank you, I'm glad there are women to talk to because most the women I know don't understand.
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Young lady, you need not be concerned with the prattle of other simpleton women. God makes it so clear in His word!
1 Corinthians 11:3 "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God."
If you do not submit completely, you make Jesus weep. It really is that simple.
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Matthew 19:14 "But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven."
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-11-2012, 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Pastor Ezekiel
I don't like to boast, but I have a modest collection of disciplinary devices. I am somewhat of an enthusiast, I guess you might say. Though I have yet to be Blessed by Jesus with a wife and children, I can assure you that I am ready, willing and able to dish out all the Godly discipline that any of my future children require. Praise God!
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Dear Pastor Ezekiel,
I hope my request for your friendship wasn't too forward. I was too eager as a PK {Ministers daughter} I got excited reading your posts! I know in Timothy 2:11 it says Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. So I was perhaps a bit to forward with being the initiator that is your job. Hope we can be online friends. Oops there I go again! - If I were married ide deserve some kind of a spanking. LOL! You probably can't edit or erace these posts so i need to be careful on here. I Stumbled upon this forum in my daily devotion on a Godly Woman. I am learning how I can be good mother wife and daughter. One of my fave subjects is a good wife. since I am 27 going on 28 I am ready to Obey a Loving Leader of a Husband. Even if that means being the neck that {turns the head} Not the head of the home. Even if that means being submissive. Being Quiet.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-11-2012, 09:01 PM
Sharon, please do bear in mind that Zeke is engaged to be engaged to Daisy Mae, and has been for at least 5 years. I don't believe he's "on the market".
Our Brother Faith Machine is single, though!
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-12-2012, 12:43 AM
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Dear Pastor Ezekiel,
I hope my request for your friendship wasn't too forward. I was too eager as a PK {Ministers daughter} I got excited reading your posts! I know in Timothy 2:11 it says Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. So I was perhaps a bit to forward with being the initiator that is your job. Hope we can be online friends. Oops there I go again! - If I were married ide deserve some kind of a spanking. LOL! You probably can't edit or erace these posts so i need to be careful on here. I Stumbled upon this forum in my daily devotion on a Godly Woman. I am learning how I can be good mother wife and daughter. One of my fave subjects is a good wife. since I am 27 going on 28 I am ready to Obey a Loving Leader of a Husband. Even if that means being the neck that {turns the head} Not the head of the home. Even if that means being submissive. Being Quiet.
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You seem like an upstanding your lady who is in need of some firm True Christian™ guidance. Feel free to contact me via the email link at the bottom of my signature. Discretion assured, pics a plus.
Please make a thread of your own in the " Introductions" section of the forum, so that we can properly greet you. Tell us about yourself, your church and how you came to find Jesus.
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Hypocrites (Matthew 24:51), The Unforgiving (Mark 11:26), Homosexuals (Romans 1:26, 27), Fornicators (Romans 1:29), The Wicked (Romans 1:29), The Covetous (Romans 1:29), The Malicious (Romans 1:29), The Envious (Romans 1:29), Murderers (Romans 1:29), The Deceitful (Romans 1:29), Backbiters (Romans 1:30), Haters of God (Romans 1:30), The Despiteful (Romans 1:30), The Proud (Romans 1:30), Boasters (Romans 1:30), Inventors of evil (Romans 1:30), Disobedient to parents (Romans 1:30), Covenant breakers (Romans 1:31), The Unmerciful (Romans 1:31), The Implacable (Romans 1:31), The Unrighteous (1Corinthians 6:9), Idolaters (1Corinthians 6:9), Adulterers (1Corinthians 6:9), The Effeminate (1Corinthians 6:9), Thieves (1Corinthians 6:10), Drunkards (1Corinthians 6:10), Reviler (1Corinthians 6:10), Extortioners (1Corinthians 6:10), The Fearful (Revelation 21:8), The Unbelieving (Revelation 21:8), The Abominable (Revelation 21:8), Whoremongers (Revelation 21:8), Sorcerers (Revelation 21:8), All Liars (Revelation 21:8)
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-16-2012, 08:16 PM
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Young lady, you need not be concerned with the prattle of other simpleton women. God makes it so clear in His word!
1 Corinthians 11:3 "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God."
If you do not submit completely, you make Jesus weep. It really is that simple.
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Thank you Brother Harold Porter. You made it very easy to understand. I will completely submit to my husband and God. After reading some different passages in the Bible that my husband has instructed me to do and some that were mentioned here I am not as scared to receive any punishment that come from the loving hands to my husband. He returns from his deployment tomorrow and said we will be starting our new life and my new way of life as It should be in the eyes of our Lord. I will be in prayer all night because I already know (and was told to expect) the up coming teachings and punishment will be severe.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-17-2012, 03:26 PM
Introduction, ...really painful, will this stop hurting soon?
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10-17-2012, 03:30 PM
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Introduction, ...really painful, will this stop hurting soon?
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That depends on you, dear. What did you do that concerned your husband so? And will you do that again?
Hello, my name is Mary. I hope to fellowship with you! That is, unless you don't listen to church authority (Deuteronomy 17:12); are a witch (Exodus 22:17); are a homosexual (Leviticus 20:13; Romans 1:24-32); or fortuneteller (Leviticus 20:27) or a snotty kid who hits their dad (Exodus 21:15); or curses their parents (Proverbs 20:20; Leviticus 20:9); an adulterer (Leviticus 20:10); a non-Christian (Exodus 22:19; Deuteronomy 13:7-12; Deuteronomy 17:2-5;Romans 1:24-32); an atheist (2 Chronicles 15:12-13); or false prophet (Zechariah 13:3); from the town of one who worships another, false god (Deuteronomy 13:13-19); were a non-virgin bride (Deuteronomy 22:20-21); or blasphemer (Leviticus 24:10-16), as God calls for your execution and will no doubt send you to Hell, and I have no interest developing a friendship with the Spiritually Walking Dead.
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10-17-2012, 04:10 PM
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That depends on you, dear. What did you do that concerned your husband so? And will you do that again?
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i know that I'm new to this lifestyle (southern Baptist) and I've noticed there are a lot of rules I must learn and follow. This was the first time I ever received cdd. I guess I just thought he was joking about it or that after a few lashings it would be over that it would be really quick but he wasn't joking and it wasn't quick. I grew up in a family were we didn't have to really watch what we said or how things were said but now I know that I will never cursed again in my life, ever. Actually I feel really bad, ashamed. Its been about 4 hours and it still really hurts.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-17-2012, 06:51 PM
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i know that I'm new to this lifestyle (southern Baptist) and I've noticed there are a lot of rules I must learn and follow.
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You make it sound legalistic, dear. That is not how a relationship with Christ works.
How is your relationship with Christ? What do you do to show your gratitude? How do you feel about Him offering to save you from the depths of Hell, for which you are rightfully destined?
Hello, my name is Mary. I hope to fellowship with you! That is, unless you don't listen to church authority (Deuteronomy 17:12); are a witch (Exodus 22:17); are a homosexual (Leviticus 20:13; Romans 1:24-32); or fortuneteller (Leviticus 20:27) or a snotty kid who hits their dad (Exodus 21:15); or curses their parents (Proverbs 20:20; Leviticus 20:9); an adulterer (Leviticus 20:10); a non-Christian (Exodus 22:19; Deuteronomy 13:7-12; Deuteronomy 17:2-5;Romans 1:24-32); an atheist (2 Chronicles 15:12-13); or false prophet (Zechariah 13:3); from the town of one who worships another, false god (Deuteronomy 13:13-19); were a non-virgin bride (Deuteronomy 22:20-21); or blasphemer (Leviticus 24:10-16), as God calls for your execution and will no doubt send you to Hell, and I have no interest developing a friendship with the Spiritually Walking Dead.
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10-17-2012, 07:35 PM
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You make it sound legalistic, dear. That is not how a relationship with Christ works.
How is your relationship with Christ? What do you do to show your gratitude? How do you feel about Him offering to save you from the depths of Hell, for which you are rightfully destined?
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Not so much legalistic but a completely new way of living and acting from what I'm use to and how I was raised. I have aways believed in Christ, even with never stepping foot into a church before I met my husband. Ha that was actually our first date.
I do believe that Christ died for our sins, that makes me try to always be a better person. Right now I am reading the bible daily, going to Bible study and doing what I can to learn more about our Lord and how I can become a true and better Christian. I am truly grateful I have a great husband to guide me and teach me. I feel like I have a lot to learn and I do want to learn as much as possible but sometimes I feel so overwhelmed. Is that normal? I want to do everything to dedicate my life to serving Christ and my husband/family.
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10-17-2012, 07:56 PM
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I feel like I have a lot to learn and I do want to learn as much as possible but sometimes I feel so overwhelmed. Is that normal?
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It means you're thinking too hard, dear. Christians need not think too hard, remember.
Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
Proverbs 3:5
Hello, my name is Mary. I hope to fellowship with you! That is, unless you don't listen to church authority (Deuteronomy 17:12); are a witch (Exodus 22:17); are a homosexual (Leviticus 20:13; Romans 1:24-32); or fortuneteller (Leviticus 20:27) or a snotty kid who hits their dad (Exodus 21:15); or curses their parents (Proverbs 20:20; Leviticus 20:9); an adulterer (Leviticus 20:10); a non-Christian (Exodus 22:19; Deuteronomy 13:7-12; Deuteronomy 17:2-5;Romans 1:24-32); an atheist (2 Chronicles 15:12-13); or false prophet (Zechariah 13:3); from the town of one who worships another, false god (Deuteronomy 13:13-19); were a non-virgin bride (Deuteronomy 22:20-21); or blasphemer (Leviticus 24:10-16), as God calls for your execution and will no doubt send you to Hell, and I have no interest developing a friendship with the Spiritually Walking Dead.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-17-2012, 08:07 PM
Women! Always confusing their emotions with thoughts...
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10-17-2012, 08:46 PM
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It means you're thinking too hard, dear. Christians need not think too hard, remember.
Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
Proverbs 3:5
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Thank you, that is a great passage.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-18-2012, 02:56 AM
Is your husband a wetback or something?
Here is a partial list from just a few scripture verses:
Hypocrites (Matthew 24:51), The Unforgiving (Mark 11:26), Homosexuals (Romans 1:26, 27), Fornicators (Romans 1:29), The Wicked (Romans 1:29), The Covetous (Romans 1:29), The Malicious (Romans 1:29), The Envious (Romans 1:29), Murderers (Romans 1:29), The Deceitful (Romans 1:29), Backbiters (Romans 1:30), Haters of God (Romans 1:30), The Despiteful (Romans 1:30), The Proud (Romans 1:30), Boasters (Romans 1:30), Inventors of evil (Romans 1:30), Disobedient to parents (Romans 1:30), Covenant breakers (Romans 1:31), The Unmerciful (Romans 1:31), The Implacable (Romans 1:31), The Unrighteous (1Corinthians 6:9), Idolaters (1Corinthians 6:9), Adulterers (1Corinthians 6:9), The Effeminate (1Corinthians 6:9), Thieves (1Corinthians 6:10), Drunkards (1Corinthians 6:10), Reviler (1Corinthians 6:10), Extortioners (1Corinthians 6:10), The Fearful (Revelation 21:8), The Unbelieving (Revelation 21:8), The Abominable (Revelation 21:8), Whoremongers (Revelation 21:8), Sorcerers (Revelation 21:8), All Liars (Revelation 21:8)
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-18-2012, 03:10 AM
The Mormons do get one or two things right about women, their place, and discipline . . .
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
10-19-2012, 03:18 PM
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Is your husband a wetback or something?
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No pastor he most definitely is not. Why do you ask?
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10-19-2012, 03:52 PM
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No pastor he most definitely is not. Why do you ask?
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I think it's a valid question.
I was in the service, and even when I was in the place was crawling with messicans and negros and chinamen (in the enlisted ranks...the officers were relatively normal, although they did have their fair share of joos).
Now that homo marriage is actively encouraged, I don't even like to think of what a unit photograph would look like.
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