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Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-23-2011, 11:08 PM
I debated putting this in the Godly ladies' thread but decided that I would risk my reputation to be thought of as forward because this is just too good to keep from men. It really is about relationships in general and having a Godly, blessed marriage which we all know is the only way to have a strong, masculine, dominant nation in God we trust. Anyway, Christian Domestic Discipline is a resource I would share with you ladies to bring home to your Godly husbands, and for you husbands to bring home to your dear, humble wives. I would encourage you to show it to your male offspring so they can be prepared for the duties ahead of them as the head of the household as per God's glorious plan.
Here is a letter from a first time GDD participant who experienced personally just why our loving God calls us to obey authority (Hebrews 12:11):
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Hubby also informed me that we are going to be working on a habit I have that he can't stand. He is giving me enough leeway so I am not really stressed about it, and since our 'test' spank, I know what I'm in for if I fail. That alone gives me a strong desire to please him.
So here's the question.....
He feels like I could have handled a lot more then I did, so for future punishments he says he will do worse. As the spanks landed I truly felt like I could take no more, but within seconds I felt we could continue. I think my bottom just needed a few seconds to recover before moving on. Is this why some HOHs make the punishment drawn out? So the bottom has a few seconds to recover while the HOH is lecturing?
He also informed me that if he had to give me a punishment spank for the offense, it would be followed by weeks of reminder spanks. I noticed myself falling back into that fear again (of "is this right for us" or more so "is this right for my bottom"). Then I remembered that reminder spanks wouldn't be anything like punishment ones.
I can tell you that I have never respected, appreciated, or loved him more then I do in this moment. In return I feel so much love from him. This is why CDD works! This is why God lead us down this path, and this is why I know my marriage will only lead to good things.
For all you newbies...I have found that ALL of us are really scared and somewhat doubtful of this lifestyle, even if it is our idea. THIS IS NORMAL!! If you look back on some of the original posts on this site alone you will see it's true. You will also see that after the first spank, most couples are still on board and loving it!! So those of you who haven't received spank #1 try not to fear the unknown so much. If this wasn't right for you then you wouldn't still be here.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-23-2011, 11:32 PM
I cannot wait to be betrothed to the True Christian™ man who will tame me with his Christians disciplines.
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09-23-2011, 11:45 PM
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I cannot wait to be betrothed to the True Christian™ man who will tame me with his Christians disciplines.
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09-24-2011, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Mary-Yves Lapierre
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I wish my man were a True Christian™ man. Alas, I can only pray and dream of the day.
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I can't stand to see such beautiful Christian women in sincere search of the Lord living with such frustration.
I'll tell you what, come out to the back of the church this Sunday and I'll punch you both in the face. It's the least I can do. No dinner or footrub will be expected; it's a total freebie.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
11-19-2011, 04:02 PM
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I wish my man were a True Christian™ man. Alas, I can only pray and dream of the day.
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I'm so glad my husband is a good Christian who punishes me for my wrong doings.
1 Corinthians 14:34 Shut up and get back in the kitchen!
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
05-29-2012, 03:41 PM
dear all, My husband regularly honors me with his discipline. I think that CDD is a precious tool that God gave to couples to buind up a christian marriage. there are many reasons why I would really suggest to each and every just married couple to practice a CDD marriage.
first of all: it helps me to to stay in track, to avoid sins, and to focus obediently to my husband's orders.
Second: after any intense session of disciplinary spanking, when I find myself in tears and sorrowful, I fully realize my inferiority, and my fragility, that are the core essence of feminility. I feel submissive, humble and grateful to my husband to protect me from sin and to guide me spiritually, and I feel a strong desire to submit to him, to please him, to obey to him.
finally: it boosts my husband's ego, showing him that he can fully exert his unrestricted leading authority over his wife, to make her a better wife, a better person and a better believer.
In order to enjoy as much as possible all these good advantages, we do not practice CDD only in case I've made some mistakes or sins, but my husbands regularly disciplines me every second day of the week, or every day (at bedtime) in periods such as spring, when I may tend to flutter a bit.
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03-31-2015, 06:11 PM
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I wish my man were a True Christian™ man. Alas, I can only pray and dream of the day.
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How can a good Christian woman get her husband to be a Christian, besides prayer
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03-31-2015, 06:48 PM
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How can a good Christian woman get her husband to be a Christian, besides prayer
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The Holy Bible is full of wonderful things you can think and do in order to win over your husband to the glory of God. Proverbs 31:10–31 is a good starting list, in my opinion. Between rising before the sun to prepare meals for your house staff and buying farm land and planting vineyards, spinning wool and flax, figuring out how to wear tapestry without looking like Liberace, and making sure people who come into town know your husband, there isn't much time for sleep. The way I think about it, when you serve the LORD well in this life, you won't be complaining about the lack of sleep in the next life, lol! In my humble opinion, there is one person living on the planet today who knows what it takes to really be a True Christian™ wife more than any other on the planet:
Kirk Cameron!
He knows for example that we women are happier when we spend more time in the kitchen singing while serving others! And the busier you are, the more you should be serving others with joy! There's no excuse to not be busy, as you should be inviting the entire neighborhood to partake in joyous festivities with you and your family. Also, we'll feel better when we nurture and care for and serve our husbands above everyone else in the world, including our dependent, helpless children! Lastly, if you feel like your marriage is not working out, he suggests you watch his blockbuster movie, Fire[in-the-bedroom]starter.
Hello, my name is Mary. I hope to fellowship with you! That is, unless you don't listen to church authority (Deuteronomy 17:12); are a witch (Exodus 22:17); are a homosexual (Leviticus 20:13; Romans 1:24-32); or fortuneteller (Leviticus 20:27) or a snotty kid who hits their dad (Exodus 21:15); or curses their parents (Proverbs 20:20; Leviticus 20:9); an adulterer (Leviticus 20:10); a non-Christian (Exodus 22:19; Deuteronomy 13:7-12; Deuteronomy 17:2-5;Romans 1:24-32); an atheist (2 Chronicles 15:12-13); or false prophet (Zechariah 13:3); from the town of one who worships another, false god (Deuteronomy 13:13-19); were a non-virgin bride (Deuteronomy 22:20-21); or blasphemer (Leviticus 24:10-16), as God calls for your execution and will no doubt send you to Hell, and I have no interest developing a friendship with the Spiritually Walking Dead.
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03-31-2015, 08:28 PM
I keep seeing this verse and it keeps me believing I need to stand by my husbands side. I will continue to pray for him. 1 Corinthians 7:12-13 Paul writes, “If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him” (1 Corinthians 7:12-13). There are many such marriages where a spouse is a believer and married to an unbeliever but this is not grounds for divorce. In fact, the believing spouse may lead such a life as to bring the unbelieving spouse to faith in Christ. First Corinthians chapter 7 is an excellent overview of marriage and sexual relationships for the single believer. Here Paul lays down the command “for all churches” to continue living and being married to the unbeliever. First Corinthians 7:17, 20 says, “Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches. Each person should remain in the situation they were in when God called them
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
03-31-2015, 08:40 PM
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I keep seeing this verse...
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I would like to let you know that I have formally disapproved of your message due to quoting from corrupted Bible versions. You may see a little red block where Christians see lots of green ones.
KJV does NOT speak of divorce, it says this:
12 But kto the rest speak I, unot the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
It is not clear to me which of you will win in the end. It might well be possible that your husbands convinces you that Jesus Christ is nothing more than an "imaginary friend".
Please, for the love of God, read this first:
http://landoverbaptist.net/showthread.php?t=5610
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Be wary of false Kumbaya Christians who use a highlighter and scissors to read the Bible. God wants us to read the lines, not between the lines. False Christians will go to Hell:
Matthew 7:22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
Matthew 7:23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
Asking a Christian to prove God exists is like asking him to prove his phone rings because yours doesn't. Make that call yourself! Dial 0800-get-on-your-knees-and-pray.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
04-02-2015, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by grandma71009
I keep seeing this verse and it keeps me believing I need to stand by my husbands side. I will continue to pray for him. 1 Corinthians 7:12-13 Paul writes, “If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him” (1 Corinthians 7:12-13). There are many such marriages where a spouse is a believer and married to an unbeliever but this is not grounds for divorce. In fact, the believing spouse may lead such a life as to bring the unbelieving spouse to faith in Christ. First Corinthians chapter 7 is an excellent overview of marriage and sexual relationships for the single believer. Here Paul lays down the command “for all churches” to continue living and being married to the unbeliever. First Corinthians 7:17, 20 says, “Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches. Each person should remain in the situation they were in when God called them
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Grandma, I'm glad you are trying to stay by your husband's side. However, I assure you that all the answers are in the KJV Bible and that any other questions (we are stupid girls after all) can be found if you search these forums. That way, we don't waste the men and TC's valuable and precious time, with our silly questions.
"Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands." Proverbs 14:1
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09-24-2011, 02:31 AM
Tell your limp-wristed husband to read his Bible!
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Prov 20:30 The blueness of a wound cleanseth away evil: so do stripes the inward parts of the belly.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
09-24-2011, 09:51 AM
It breaks my heart to see a woman so devout and hungry for the love of a real man of God saddled with such a pansy. Of course it makes me love my wife all the more and the next time I see her face shining up at me wet with tears of joy and full of righteous fear of the Lord after receiving His correction through my rod I'll be thinking of you in torment yearning for the same treatment. How can your husband see such testimony as that letter and not immediately beat you senseless!
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05-29-2012, 03:47 PM
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I'll be thinking of you in torment yearning for the same treatment. How can your husband see such testimony as that letter and not immediately beat you senseless!
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Yes Sir, you are totally right! It is so loving from our husband to dedicate their time, energy and efforts to correct their wives! And been beated senseless is a right way to increase a wife's respect and love towards a truly dominant and blessed christian husband!
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05-29-2012, 04:04 PM
Welcome to God's favourite forum Juliet, you certainly seem to have the attributes of a good Christian woman (without seeing a photo of course).
How about posting a proper introduction in the Introduction forum. What is your favourite Bible verse, what inspires you?
The one inspiring me today is:
1 Corinthians 14:34
Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.
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05-29-2012, 04:56 PM
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Welcome to God's favourite forum Juliet, you certainly seem to have the attributes of a good Christian woman (without seeing a photo of course).
How about posting a proper introduction in the Introduction forum. What is your favourite Bible verse, what inspires you?
The one inspiring me today is:
1 Corinthians 14:34
Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.
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Dear Sir, I introduced myself as soon as I subscribed to this excellent forum, it was a few weeks ago, because I prefer to read and learn, rather then to write.
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Re: Christian Domestic Discipline -
03-21-2014, 03:50 AM
I am new here and desperate for support as I am just entering a Christian DD relationship and I really want/need it to work! Is this site a good resource for me?
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03-23-2014, 02:03 AM
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I am new here and desperate for support as I am just entering a Christian DD relationship and I really want/need it to work! Is this site a good resource for me?
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Of course, sweetie! Better yet, just read your Bible, it's all there.
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03-23-2014, 08:14 PM
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Of course, sweetie! Better yet, just read your Bible, it's all there.
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Sweet Darling Lissa,
Did you ever read YOURS? I seem to recall something about how anything written above third grade level was so hard for you. Keep striving, honeydew. You'll soon get beyond Winnie the Pooh. God will understand.
With prayers,
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03-23-2014, 08:26 PM
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Sweet Darling Lissa,
Did you ever read YOURS? I seem to recall something about how anything written above third grade level was so hard for you. Keep striving, honeydew. You'll soon get beyond Winnie the Pooh. God will understand.
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