Re: God fearing Christian seeking virgin wife -
01-10-2013, 10:02 AM
Where you are going wrong is not having put the fear of God's love into her.
It seems when you are around the idea of loving discipline is an effective tool. What she needs to know is that Jesus sees all:
Proverbs 15:3 "The eyes of the LORD are in every place, beholding the evil and the good."
And He has told us his desires for wives:
Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
The husband is the head of his house hold as Jesus is head of the church.
Ephesians 5:22-24 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
She need to know that if she disobeys you she is disobeying God and He will see everything she does and she will go to Hell.
Acts 1:24 "And they prayed, and said, Thou, Lord, which knowest the hearts of all men, shew whether of these two thou hast chosen"
Hell is not a nice place, full of evil people God has set aside.
Psalm 9:17 "The wicked shall be turned into hell, and all the nations that forget God."
Revelation 22:15 For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.
You need to get her right with God. When you lovingly discipline her next, time how long before you get tired and have to stop. Next time, only discipline her for half the time.
With the remaining time read her passages from the Bible(KJV1611) like the ones I have posted. Soon she will see the Bible as a pleasent alternative to being lovingly disciplined. When you are half way through the remaining time ask her if she wants you to stop reading the Bible. If she says yes, continue with the discipline. If she says no, ask her to repeat what you have quoted to her. If she gets it right praise her. If she gets it wrong, continue the discipline (you should have recovered your breath, by then.
This is classical (Pavlovian) conditioning and soon she will soon feel unable to run away because of the association of Jesus watching her.
It will take time (depending on how independent she still is) but soon her conditioned healthy fear of God will see you fast on you way to marriage bliss.
All the best!
YIC
1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
Revelation 22:15 For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.
Leviticus 20:13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
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