I am getting married!
Dear fellow Christians, and forum members today is a very happy day for me, and in the near future even happier. In 2 days I am getting married. My father has a friend who is trying to marry off one of his daughters, and I met him we talked over dinner, and said that he wante me to marry his daughter. My father agreed, and I was told I would marry Elizabeth in 2 days. I am very happy I was starting to think I would have trouble meeting a real Godly woman. It is a relief to me now that I will be able to have a family. Elizabeth is supposed to move in with me on our wedding day, and tonight we are going to have dinner to get to know each other better. We have been equantinces, but don't really know each other that well. Does anyone know of any good Godly restraunts to go to? I know Chic-Fil-A is a great place to go to, but it's more of grab n go food instead of sit down, and eat. Does anyone have any tips, and how should I act? Should I assert myself as being the man, or should I be very polite, and laid back? Thanks in advance!
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I have 3 tips for you, your life and your wedding:
Ephesians 5:22 "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord." Genesis 3:16 "Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee." 1 Timothy 2:11-12 "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence." |
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I have one more question it may be a little inappropriate, but I will be as clean, and as brief as possible. How long should we wait to start "having children" per say. I would think it would be smart to make as many as possible as soon as possible or is this discouraged? Should we wait for a while? I know the whole point in getting married is so you can have children, and teach them the holy word of God, but should we wait for a while or get right to it as soon as we're married?
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Amen. Remember Ephesians 5:22 especially, as it is going to be the first transgression your wife will commit before all the others. The first thing she will do is stop treating you like you were God Himself. That's when you know things are about to snowball out of control, unless you perform your role as man of the house. That role is basically the role of God Himself, according to Ephesians 5:22. So treat your wife like you would if you were the sole arbiter of good and evil. Basically, punish her whenever she offends your preferences, never question yourself, do not compromise with her, and always remember that you are infinitely superior to her, as God is superior to us. :thumbsup:
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Proverbs 31:10-31 E
An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands. She is like the ships of the merchant; she brings her food from afar. ... |
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But sometimes my wife might does something extremely stupid and all of a sudden I find I've given her a black eye. For those occasions I've made sure she knows what to tell people who ask how she got it: "I walked into a door/ fell down the stairs." |
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As the verse says, who can find such a wife that seeks wool and flax and works with willing hands, who brings her food from afar, etc. They are exceedingly hard to find, in these, the end times, as they were in the ancient world. FeministSocialistSlut proves my point with this excellent choice of scripture. Perhaps she will be a True Christian™ wife someday. :thumbsup: |
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Basically, you can treat your wife however you want. You are her God, remember? I usually dunk my wife's head under water over and over when she screws up a meal or makes a mess. But you can do whatever you want. |
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